Monday, December 22, 2025

Hosting Christmas dinner without losing your mind

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In New Zealand, our best Christmas meals are relaxed, generous, and a little improvised. Photo supplied

East Aucklanders hosting Christmas dinners this festive season should keep it in mind the task comes with its own unique challenges – it’s festive, joyful, and often unexpectedly hot.

While much of the world is roasting turkeys in winter coats, we’re juggling summer heat, last-minute supermarket runs, and guests drifting in from the beach.

The key to staying sane is letting go of the idea that Christmas lunch needs to be perfect.

In New Zealand, our best Christmas meals are relaxed, generous, and a little improvised.

Start by choosing a menu that works with the weather. Cold ham, fresh seafood, salads, and fruit-based desserts not only suit a Kiwi Christmas, they also reduce time spent hovering over a hot oven.

If the barbecue’s free, use it. Grilled prawns or lamb can be lifesavers.

Preparation is your greatest ally. Do what you can the day before, from chopping vegetables to setting the table.

Clear space in the fridge early because Christmas has a way of expanding beyond expectations.

Accept help when it’s offered, whether it’s a pavlova from a cousin or someone bringing ice. Hosting doesn’t mean doing everything yourself.

Most importantly, remember why everyone has gathered. Christmas in Auckland is about whānau, sunshine, shared food, and lingering conversations that stretch long into the afternoon.

If something burns or a dish runs late, it’ll be forgotten. What won’t be forgotten is the feeling of being welcomed.

A calm host sets the tone. Pour yourself a drink, step outside for fresh air if needed, and trust that a good Christmas doesn’t come from perfection – it comes from presence.

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